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This is extremely random…

A few I suppose. I have really good upper-body strength, which is probably from tossing cheerleaders around back when I was a sophomore. I’ve just always been a bit of a monkey.

Always happy to help however I can, dear anon! I hope everything works out for you.

Sorry darling anon, I fell asleep last night and I’ve been spending the day with Blaine so I only saw this message now.

I’m going to tell you the same thing I tell everyone when I’m asked about coming out - you need to form a support group to tell of people you trust and then it makes it easier when you actually tell more people since you know there are those who love you. Now, I remember you said you already have people who know, and that’s good, but dating someone while in the closet is one thing that I just can’t support.

It puts pressure on you, it puts pressure on her, and it’ll put a lot of pressure on your relationship and maintaining it. I’m not saying jump out of the closet for her, I’m saying figure out how far out you need to be to successfully date (like would you be willing to hold hands with her in the halls? Kiss her in front of your family? You don’t have to be ready for that yet, but it’s something to think over.) Dating with a closet door in the way makes things complicated.

As for how to approach her - well, asking someone out on a coffee date always worked for me. Start with small things and work your way to dinner, movies, and then just ask her if she wants to be your girlfriend. 

One last thing… As some one who has crushed on straight people before, I need to honestly say that it’s usually not a good idea to try to get them to date you.  If this girl you like is out of the closet, then that’s awesome. But if she’s not interested because of her sexuality - well, sometimes the chase isn’t worth it and neither is the heartbreak.

Best of luck, darling. Break a leg and knock her dead ;D

Thank you! 

And that’s complicated, anon, because… Well, the basis of a relationship is communication, and of course, trust. I’m not saying come out to her if you don’t feel ready, but then again, I’m also a bit on the dark right now. I mean, if you’re a guy and a closeted bisexual, coming out to her would obviously be a less big deal than if you were a girl.

But honestly, I say go for it. You’ll never know if you don’t ask. Make sure you trust her first and then, yeah, why not tell her you like her?

I hope that helps and thank you for the birthday wishes!

Thank you, Heather!!!

Thank you so much, Naya!